The filenames I use are all following the standard pattern 20241223090627-thoughts_about_literature_notes.org, so the filenames will always be different, that is not the issue.
The question is rather that with the key binding C-c n f I won’t be able to create 2 different notes with the same title, say “thoughts about literature notes”, similar to the some problem you seemed to have at one point.
I think I understand that the solution would be to use some “capture templates” for the creation part.
Then, for the part where you are trying to find a note, there is a suggestion in the same thread to use consult-org-roam.
In the same thread something else caught my attention, it was tags / org-roam-node-display-template.